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Finding Pattaya Girls who don’t work in the sex trade

Most of the guys who join the annual migration to down to Pattaya each year are looking to meet the Pattaya girls that work in the beer bars, go-go clubs, and discos. They’re only here for a couple of weeks at best and they don’t come with the idea of finding true love or a lifetime soul mate. They’re coming to get laid and the sooner that happens for them, the better.

But, after you’ve had your fill of bar girls, you may start to consider the prospect of actually finding a girl in Pattaya that you could settle down with. While some guys have been lucky and have managed to have long term relationships with bar girls, most of the time it just doesn’t work out.

The Pattaya girls from the bars are intent on making money. Once they’ve been around the block a few times, it’s hard to get the bar mentality out of a Pattaya bar girl. There are also psychological problems that arise in some men from knowing that their wives used to be prostitutes.

Where do you find Pattaya girls who have never worked in the sex industry? Are their any girls like that in Pattaya? As amazing as it may seem to some, the answer to that question is a resounding, “Yes”! You might find it hard to believe, but there are actually girls in Pattaya who have never even imagined working in a bar, have been in a bar, and don’t want to go into a bar, ever.

There are Pattaya girls who actually have professional jobs. There are girls in Pattaya who are doctors and nurses, lawyers and secretaries, students and teachers, just look around you they’re everywhere.  In fact, there are thousands of gorgeous women in Pattaya who are looking for friendship, romance, and long term relationships with Western men.

So, how do you meet the “nice girls” of Pattaya? Well, the solution might surprise you. If you’re looking for a girl in Pattaya with a higher educational background than a bar girl or one with a different work history, then you should consider one of the Thai dating sites as a solution. No kidding, it’s actually a great way to meet legitimate girls in Pattaya.

The problem you’ll find if you just go out there and “google” for a Thai dating site, you’ll come up with rubbish. Most of the sites out there, frankly, don’t deliver what you’re looking for. They’re poorly designed, they don’t have good features, there’s a bunch of hags on the site, and they’re just not worth joining.

When choosing which dating site to join, make sure you pick a site that’s been around for a while and that has invested in promotion. It’s important that they have a large well established user base. In other words, you want them to have a large number of female members. The more members on the site, the less time it will take you to find the Pattaya partner you’re looking for.

It’s important to look at the features that are offered. You want to use a site that has features like instant messaging, email contacting, and live chat. Most importantly the ideal site should have a huge photo gallery as well as member videos.

We’ve gone to the trouble of searching out the best sites on the web for finding Thai women. The dating sites that we recommend on this page are top notch in every way. Each of the sites that we have listed here is free to join. Once you sign up you can browse literally thousands of Thai profiles and personal ads.

In some cases, you’ll be required to upgrade your account to access some of the better features of the site. But look at it this way, how much do you spend on a typical evening out in the bars and clubs of Pattaya? For less than what you spend on lady drinks and bar girls in Pattaya in an evening, you can get full access to all of the features that will help you find a serious romantic partner who you could actually have a relationship with.

For you guys that are looking for an authentic Thai adventure and are not looking to get married, we’ve included one dating site that specializes in Adult hook-ups. It’s sure to add some spice to your Thai experience. You can find both singles and couples who enjoy sexual freedom and who are looking for short term encounters with Western men.

Whatever your fancy, you should check out one of these sites. It’s a great change of pace from the Pattaya bar girl scene and you might just find your special Pattaya girl.

AsianDating.com

This site is the leader in the field of Asian dating. It has more members than any other site specializing in Asian girls. They actually have more than 675,000 members from all parts of Asia. With that many members, it’s not hard to find thousands that are online every night. As of this posting, there are over 1000 Thai girls registered, many of them Pattaya girls, who are looking for Western men who want to establish relationships.

At AsianDating.com you can sign up for free and they let you create a profile with as many as five photos. The free membership allows you to browse other profiles and contact as many of the paying members that you want. There’s no charge to send messages. It’s a great program with no hidden fees. You also have the ability to send instant messages on the standard plan.

If you’d like more interaction within the community, you can upgrade your membership which gives you the capability of participating in the chat rooms. With so many active members here, you’re bound to find the ideal Pattaya companion.

ThaiLoveLinks.com

Now here’s a dating site that specializes in Thai girls. They are huge in Thailand and have over 360,000 Thai girls and women who are members. If you’re interested in finding a Pattaya girl, this site probably gives you the best chance of that. They even have a translation service that breaks down the communication barrier. Their standard membership is free and has enough features to get you on the way to finding the perfect Thai girlfriend.

11 comments to Finding Pattaya Girls who don’t work in the sex trade

  • callum

    fantastic piece of whiting i totally agree. ive been to thailand only once and found many girls out there are genuinely nice and normal! i have many questions about pattaya. if you are english and would like to answer some of them then please contact me by email.

  • dating girls

    Very usefull infomaction. Thank you.
    Keep it up

  • thai-willi

    love your pattaya girl

  • I think it’s very hard to know if a Pattaya girl who anticipates a relationship with a foreigner is not part of bars and freelancing.

  • adrian

    What web site caters for adult hook ups?

  • David

    Lots and lots of ex hookers and bar girls register on TLL and asia.com . The majority of girls who seek a farang only want money first and see what comes later.Its quieter than ever in Pattaya due to the globasl woes ,heaps of the BGs I know extract extra $$$$ and wooducks of the internet sites. Id say BEWARE if you want to find a sexy doctor fo a long term relationship go to a surgery meet there chances are shes not really interested in a flamboyant love starved or sick farang anyway!!

  • asi

    i look for farangs i love them and dont want money just make good friend and perhaps some more my nema is ASI i wait for friends

  • Barry

    I am 59 and seperated and looking for a Thai female I am realistic and dont want a young girl.
    I want her to come to come too the UK as a permenent thing any one know the best way to meet without going through costly websites.
    I shall be in Pattaya over xmas.

  • mohsen

    daer freind
    i need nice girl and sexi and have anice good relation hsip together

  • hassan

    Dear freind
    I am geologist working in mine 45 years old I need a freind for caltural relationship and guiding me in traveling and show detail aspects of her country and life style.

  • 4hourMike

    hassan, If you’d like to meet some of the girls, you should sign up for an account at ThaiLoveLinks. You can get step-by-step instructions complete with screen shots by clicking here: How To Get A Date With A Pattaya Girl

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